Nasty emails we've gotten:
I hate to have to tell you this, but you took matters into your own hands with IVF and you reaped the consequences. That's why we don't play God with our fertility. Had you waited on his timing, none of that would have happened to you. And don't sugar coat the "reduction" procedure--it was abortion, the deliberate, pre-meditated murder of your innocent babies. And deep in your heart, you know it. You need help to deal with the lies you've been told by your healthcare providers and society in general. God didn't "do" anything to you. He is not cruel, he proved it when he gave you your son. And by the way, that constant guilt and those feelings of utter sadness? Yeah, those are symptoms of post-abortion stress syndrome. And you know what else? Nothing, NOTHING will make you feel better about killing your children. You have to repent and ask God to heal your pain. Plain and simple. I wish I could be loving and supportive to you, but when I read your story, I became enraged at your ignorance and naivete. I hope this message is the jolt you obviously need to get right with God. Find a good church that won't condemn you but help you. Get into a post-abortion support group. You'll find out, it's the only thing that will truly ease your pain.